Tuesday, January 11, 2011

latimes.com

Debbie Friedman, self-taught Jewish folk singer, dies at 59

Inspired by 1960s folk singers and bored by synagogue services, she began infusing traditional Jewish prayers with a contemporary sensibility, transforming the worship experience.

By Elaine Woo, Los Angeles Times
January 11, 2011
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Debbie Friedman, a self-taught Jewish folk singer and composer who transformed synagogue music and worship by infusing traditional prayers with a contemporary sensibility, died Sunday at Mission Hospital in Mission Viejo. She was 59.

The cause was complications of pneumonia from an unknown viral infection, said her sister, Cheryl Friedman.

Over the last four decades Friedman recorded more than 20 albums of songs that combine English and Hebrew texts with folk rhythms. Among her best-known compositions is "Mi Sheberach," the Jewish prayer for healing. Written for a friend who was struggling to adjust to getting older, it became a staple of Reform Jewish services and a central part of the Jewish healing movement, which reaches out to people coping with serious illness.

The song was performed at a Tucson temple Sunday for Arizona Congresswoman Gabrielle Giffords, critically wounded during a shooting rampage the day before, as well as at healing services for Friedman after she became ill last week.

Friedman, a self-described child of the 1960s, somewhat resembled Joan Baez with her dark, closely cropped hair. She taught herself to play guitar and compose by listening to the music of artists such as Judy Collins, Carly Simon and the folk trio Peter, Paul and Mary.

"Debbie Friedman has carved a very powerful legacy in the Jewish world," the trio's Peter Yarrow, who performed with her at Carnegie Hall, said some years ago. "She took all the energies of the folk music that preceded it and turned it into something that directly related to Jewishness. I don't think anybody else has done that, and she has done it brilliantly."

Since last year, Friedman was a music instructor and artist-in-residence at the Los Angeles campus of Hebrew Union College, where she taught a course on using Jewish texts as a source for songs, sermons, and study.

"She led a revolution…. Her music is quite universal in the Jewish community," Rabbi Richard Levy, a longtime friend and director of spiritual growth at the college, said Monday.

Her music is most popular in Reform and Conservative synagogues, but it has also been performed in Orthodox Jewish settings and in Christian churches.

Although Friedman's modern twist on Jewish spiritual music met considerable resistance at first, she eventually led congregations as cantorial soloist, even though she was not an ordained cantor.

The daughter of a kosher butcher and a food service director, Friedman was born in Utica, N.Y., on Feb. 23, 1951, and moved with her family to St. Paul, Minn., when she was 6. She took piano lessons as a child and taught herself to play guitar at a Jewish summer camp when she was a teenager.

Instead of attending college, she moved to Israel after graduating from high school and lived on a kibbutz for six months. When she returned to the U.S., she began attending a St. Paul synagogue but found the services boring. "I realized the rabbi was talking, the choir was singing and nobody was doing anything. There was no participation," she recalled in a 1995 interview with The Times.

Not long after, she was riding a bus from New Jersey to New York when a melody came into her head. She joined it to "V'ahavta," a prayer about unity with God, and taught it to Jewish youths at a summer camp. Their reaction startled her. "All of a sudden they stood up, grabbed each other's arms and joined in this prayer," she said. "I realized something powerful was happening."

The popularity of "V'ahavta" led her to make a demo. When she quickly sold 1,000 copies of the recording, she knew she had found her vocation.

"Music was the way she found to express her commitment to and love for Judaism, and that really was her calling," Cheryl Friedman said of her sister, whose other survivors include her mother, Freda, of Laguna Hills, and sister Barbara Egli of Minnesota.

Several of Friedman's songs are in the Reform prayer book, and some of her lyrics have appeared on Hallmark greeting cards. One of her most popular children's compositions, the "Alef Bet Song" about the Hebrew alphabet, has been performed by Barney, the purple dinosaur from children's TV.

Her primary objective was to "try to make prayer user friendly," she told Reform Judaism magazine in 2002. "Because the music is in a familiar genre, people are able to make the connection between the music and the text. The real power is in the poetry of the liturgy, how moving and stirring it can be, connecting us to our deepest and most precious ideas, hopes, and fears."

The funeral will be held at 11 a.m. Tuesday at Temple Beth Sholom, 2625 N. Tustin Ave., Santa Ana.

elaine.woo@latimes.com

Sunday, January 9, 2011

"Beyond the beauty of external forms, there is something more existing here:
something that cannot be named or defined, some deep and holy.
Whenever and wherever there is beauty, this inner essence shines through somehow.
It only reveals itself to you when you are present."

The power of now
Erkhart Tolle

It's the birthday of Cassandra Austen, born in Hampshire, England (1773). She was a good watercolor painter, and she was extremely close to her sister, novelist Jane Austen. Neither one of the two sisters ever married and they shared a bedroom all of their lives. When they were apart from each other — when one traveled to visit distant relatives and the other stayed home — they wrote letters, hundreds of them. And it's from these letters between the Austen sisters that scholars have been able to piece together many of the details about Jane Austen's life.
We also know what Jane Austen looks like because of drawings by her sister Cassandra. One of Cassandra's illustrations of Jane is on display at the National Portrait Gallery in London.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Things Babies Born in 2011 Will Never Know

Things Babies Born in 2011 Will Never Know
by Stacy Johnson
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
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Huffington Post recently put up a story called You're Out: 20 Things That Became Obsolete This Decade. It's a great retrospective on the technology leaps we've made since the new century began, and it got me thinking about the difference today's technology will make in the lives of tomorrow's kids.
I've used some of their ideas and added some of my own to make the list below: Do you think kids born in 2011 will recognize any of the following?
Video tape: Starting this year, the news stories we produce here at Money Talks have all been shot, edited, and distributed to TV stations without ever being on any kind of tape. Not only that, the tape-less broadcast camera we use today offers much higher quality than anything that could have been imagined 10 years ago -- and cost less than the lens on the camera we were using previously.
Travel agents: While not dead today, this profession is one of many that's been decimated by the Internet. When it's time for their honeymoon, will those born in 2011 be able to find one?
The separation of work and home: When you're carrying an email-equipped computer in your pocket, it's not just your friends who can find you -- so can your boss. For kids born this year, the wall between office and home will be blurry indeed.
Books, magazines, and newspapers: Like video tape, words written on dead trees are on their way out. Sure, there may be books -- but for those born today, stores that exist solely to sell them will be as numerous as record stores are now.
Movie rental stores: You actually got in your car and drove someplace just to rent a movie?
Watches: Maybe as quaint jewelry, but the correct time is on your smartphone, which is pretty much always in your hand.


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Paper maps: At one time these were available free at every gas station. They're practically obsolete today, and the next generation will probably have to visit a museum to find one.
Wired phones: Why would you pay $35 every month to have a phone that plugs into a wall? For those born today, this will be a silly concept.
Long distance: Thanks to the Internet, the days of paying more to talk to somebody in the next city, state, or even country are limited.
Newspaper classifieds: The days are gone when you have to buy a bunch of newsprint just to see what's for sale.
Dial-up Internet: While not everyone is on broadband, it won't be long before dial-up Internet goes the way of the plug-in phone.
Encyclopedias: Imagine a time when you had to buy expensive books that were outdated before the ink was dry. This will be a nonsense term for babies born today.
Forgotten friends: Remember when an old friend would bring up someone you went to high school with, and you'd say, "Oh yeah, I forgot about them!" The next generation will automatically be in touch with everyone they've ever known even slightly via Facebook.
Forgotten anything else: Kids born this year will never know what it was like to stand in a bar and incessantly argue the unknowable. Today the world's collective knowledge is on the computer in your pocket or purse. And since you have it with you at all times, why bother remembering anything?
The evening news: The news is on 24/7. And if you're not home to watch it, that's OK -- it's on the smartphone in your pocket.
CDs: First records, then 8-track, then cassette, then CDs -- replacing your music collection used to be an expensive pastime. Now it's cheap(er) and as close as the nearest Internet connection.
Film cameras: For the purist, perhaps, but for kids born today, the word "film" will mean nothing. In fact, even digital cameras -- both video and still -- are in danger of extinction as our pocket computers take over that function too.
Yellow and White Pages: Why in the world would you need a 10-pound book just to find someone?
Catalogs: There's no need to send me a book in the mail when I can see everything you have for sale anywhere, anytime. If you want to remind me to look at it, send me an email.
Fax machines: Can you say "scan," ".pdf" and "email?"
One picture to a frame: Such a waste of wall/counter/desk space to have a separate frame around each picture. Eight gigabytes of pictures and/or video in a digital frame encompassing every person you've ever met and everything you've ever done -- now, that's efficient. Especially compared to what we used to do: put our friends and relatives together in a room and force them to watch what we called a "slide show" or "home movies."
Wires: Wires connecting phones to walls? Wires connecting computers, TVs, stereos, and other electronics to each other? Wires connecting computers to the Internet? To kids born in 2011, that will make as much sense as an electric car trailing an extension cord.
Hand-written letters: For that matter, hand-written anything. When was the last time you wrote cursive? In fact, do you even know what the word "cursive" means? Kids born in 2011 won't -- but they'll put you to shame on a tiny keyboard.
Talking to one person at a time: Remember when it was rude to be with one person while talking to another on the phone? Kids born today will just assume that you're supposed to use texting to maintain contact with five or six other people while pretending to pay attention to the person you happen to be physically next to.
Retirement plans: Yes, Johnny, there was a time when all you had to do was work at the same place for 20 years and they'd send you a check every month for as long as you lived. In fact, some companies would even pay your medical bills, too!
Mail: What's left when you take the mail you receive today, then subtract the bills you could be paying online, the checks you could be having direct-deposited, and the junk mail you could be receiving as junk email? Answer: A bloated bureaucracy that loses billions of taxpayer dollars annually.
Commercials on TV: They're terrifically expensive, easily avoided with DVRs, and inefficiently target mass audiences. Unless somebody comes up with a way to force you to watch them -- as with video on the Internet -- who's going to pay for them?
Commercial music radio: Smartphones with music-streaming programs like Pandora are a better solution that doesn't include ads screaming between every song.
Hiding: Not long ago, if you didn't answer your home phone, that was that -- nobody knew if you were alive or dead, much less where you might be. Now your phone is not only in your pocket, it can potentially tell everyone -- including advertisers -- exactly where you are.

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Love Begins at Home

It is easy to love the people far away. It is not always easy to love those close to us. It is easier to give a cup of rice to relieve hunger than to relieve the loneliness and pain of someone unloved in our own home. Bring love into your home for this is where our love for each other must start.
Mother Teresa, 1910-1997
Catholic Nun, Missionary and Nobel Prize Recipient

Monday, January 3, 2011

New Years Recipe

New Years Recipe:

Take twelve whole months,
Clean them thoroughly of all bitterness, hate, and jealousy,
Make them just as fresh and clean as possible.
Now cut each month into twenty-eight, thirty, or
thirty-one different parts,
but don't make up the whole batch at once.
Prepare it one day at a time out of these ingredients.
Mix well into each day one part of faith,
one part of patience, one part of courage,
and one part of work.
Add to each day one part of hope,
faithfulness, generosity, and kindness.
Blend with one part prayer,
one part meditation, and one good deed.
Season the whole with a dash of good spirits,
a sprinkle of fun, a pinch of play,
and a cupful of good humor.
Pour all of this into a vessel of love.
Cook thoroughly over radiant joy,
garnish with a smile,
and serve with quietness, unselfishness,
and cheerfulness.
You're bound to have a Happy New Year.
Author Unknown

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Happy New Year!

Today is New Year's Day. Various New Year traditions have been celebrated for a long time — the earliest recorded celebration was in about 2000 B.C. in Mesopotamia, where the new year was celebrated in mid-March, around the time of the vernal equinox. Iranians and Balinese still celebrate the new year with the spring equinox. The Chinese New Year is based around the lunar cycles, and it can fall between late January and late February. In Europe, the Celtic New Year began on November 1st, after the harvest.
The first time that New Year's Day was celebrated on January 1st was in 45 B.C., when Caesar redid the Roman calendar. He based it on the sun instead of the moon (like the Egyptians), added some days to the year, and declared every January 1st the start of the new year. But Caesar had subtly miscalculated the length of the solar year, and declared an extra day in February every four years, which turned out to be slightly too often, so that by the Middle Ages the calendar was about 10 days off. It wasn't until the 1570s that the calendar was finally refined with leap years in the correct places, and since then, January 1st has been celebrated as New Year's Day.


It's the birthday of J.D. Salinger, (books by this author) born in New York City in 1919. He wanted to be a writer, and his dream was to publish his fiction in The New Yorker, which rejected his work over and over. In November of 1941, he finally got an acceptance letter from The New Yorker for a short story called "Slight Rebellion Off Madison," about a teenager named Holden Caulfield. It was set to come out in the Christmas issue, but then the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor, and the story was put on hold. Salinger was drafted into the Army, deployed in the ground force invasion of Normandy, and he was part of the Battle of the Bulge and some of the worst fighting of WWII. When the war ended, Salinger checked into an Army general hospital in Nuremberg, suffering from shell shock. In 1946, The New Yorker finally published "Slight Rebellion Off Madison." Salinger took the character of Holden Caulfield, and he wrote an entire novel about him. And even though it got mixed reviews and Salinger refused to help with publicity at all, it was a best seller: The Catcher in the Rye (1951). And Salinger became a celebrity, which he hated, so he became a recluse. He died just this past January (2010), at the age of 91.

Ode to Last Day of the Year - Hello to the First of the New Year!

This is the last day of the year
they call it new years eve
look back at all the memories
this year you’re going to leave
Some you will cherish always
and keep for all it’s worth
because someone close to you
has been gifted with a birth
Some others you wish to forget
but know you never will
for someone close passed over
and some were never ill
Some will be very pleasant
and close to your heart
sit down and list the good things
back to january make a start
So when you feel unhappy
in the new upcoming year
sit down and read your memories
and smile from ear to ear
Don’t ponder on the bad things now
only tears will be shed
for tomorrow is a new start
a new year is ahead

Happy New Year!

Sharing, caring is the way
Peace on Earth, good will, I pray.
Harmony, joy and abundance stand tall,
Long life, no strife, love to all!